Archived Posts
  • Macklemore Should Bring Light in the Darkest of Places—Not Hate
    Life is inherently complicated. We must resist the urge to oversimplify complex issues. The pursuit of trying to be on the ‘right’ side can...
  • How is it 5784?
    Okay, so I’ve been wondering… what’s with the year 5784? For the Gregorian calendar, we know it is 2023 because we are counting forward...
  • Planting the Seeds of Israel
    My Jewish journey started when I opened my DNA results from Ancestry.com to discover I was 50% “Ashkenazi.” I didn’t know what that word...
  • Hanukkah Isn’t Anything Like Christmas
    Happy Holiday – חג שמח – Happy Hanukkah! Before my DNA surprise and dive into Judaism, I never understood Hanukkah. I always thought of...
  • My First D’Var
    I was terrified for my first d'var. Luckly, it fell on one of the few Torah portions I am familiar with: Vayishlach where Jacob wrestles with an angel—his inner demons. Something I can relate to with my DNA suprise.
  • The Complicated Question of Passing
    “If you need to pass, you should,” my grandfather told me. We started having this conversation when I was around seven years old.
  • Limmud – Jewish Learning for Everyone
    Limmud’s mission: “Wherever you find yourself, Limmud will take you one step further in your Judaism.” It's true—they do!
  • Chanukah ain’t Jewish Christmas
    Chanukah is about more than a story of lights and miracles. It's tale of choice, bravery, and triumph can help inform how Jews face antisemitism today.
  • The Days of Awe: Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and the Days In Between
    What is so awe-inspiring about the Days of Awe - the time between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur? An apology, true remorse, and learning from your mistake.
  • Welcome Home Zera Yisrael (Seeds of Israel)
    I first encountered this phrase, Welcome Home, when I dropped my son off at Camp Kalsman. When I visited Temple B’nai Torah in Bellevue, I was greeted with the same phrase. Is this a spiritual welcoming for Zera Yisrael I wondered?
  • Understanding the Jewish Calendar
    You see, there’s really only one thing that I find bewildering about Judaism—the calendar. Growing up in the U.S. we’re steeped in the Gregorian calendar. The calendar seemed a simple thing until I after being introduced to the Jewish calendar.
  • Why My DNA Surprise Rocked My Identity
    Somehow you ended up taking an over-the-counter DNA test. Perhaps the commercial of lederhosen versus a kilt sucked you in. Whatever brought you to the moment where you found yourself spitting into a little tube isn’t important. The only thing that matters is your little vial turned out to be Pandora’s box.
  • Summer Camp
    During a break at one of our Intro to Judaism classes, my husband slid a brochure my way. My eyes scanned the title, “PNW Sisterhood Retreat.” Me? I thought. My husband must have read the expression on my face. He told me he thought it would be fun for me and a good way of meeting other Jewish women. “Besides, why not go?”
  • Passover: Thanksgiving’s Jewish Cousin
    I was excited to celebrate my first Passover holiday. I was really starting to like the theme of Jewish holidays—let’s celebrate and eat!
  • Antiquated Words Like Mamzer and Bastard Should Be Forgotten
    I am a bastard but not a mamzer. My biological father is not the man my mother was married to when I was born. The only reason I'm not a mamzer is my mother wasn't Jewish.
  • Stones Not Flowers: Visiting My Grandparents’ Graves
    One of the oddest Jewish traditions I’ve encountered is the custom of placing a small rock on top of the headstone or somewhere close to a gravesite rather than flowers. I love the color, the reminder of life flowers offer the gravesite of a loved one.
  • Purim: The Jewish Holiday You Probably Don’t Know About
    Who knew Judaism had so many holidays! My favorite newly discovered holiday—Purim. Purim is something like a cross between Halloween, Easter, and Mardi Gras. Sounds like fun? It is!
  • Know Your Face, and Your Hair
    Even for a girl who was supposed to be half black, my hair never made sense. Well, that and my skin color. The later could be explained away by the fact there was obviously some mixing between a white slave owner and my black ancestors
  • Challah Making
    Challah. No food represents being a Jew more than this mildly spongy, slightly crunchy, honey kissed confection. I’ve made bread before, but there wasn’t any historical or cultural connection to my past bread making experiences.
  • God, Are You Out There?
    The concept of God is a tricky thing. I do not equate God and religion. I see religion as divisive and often hypocritical. I think God on the other hand, can be a unifying idea when separated from organized religion. When you have children, you think more about what God means...
  • Intro to Judaism Class
    My first Intro to Judaism class I was so nervous. I couldn’t help but wonder how I would fit in. I wasn’t looking to convert. Did the fact that my birth father was Jewish make a difference?
  • American Jewish Committee Advocacy in Action Dinner
    After my Surprise DNA results in January 2018, I splattered the Internet with my DNA trying to find my biological father.
  • First Visit to Temple
    I met a woman in a knitting store (I love to knit, it gives my hands something to do - sitting idle is not something I do well), she'd picked up the most beautiful variegated yarn.
  • Identity and DNA Surprises
    I DNA surprise can turn your life upside but it can also explain so much about who you are.